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This topic always comes up in discussions, in any group, whether male or female.
The need for communication with the opposite sex exists in everyone — it developed evolutionarily.However, the way, frequency, and criteria for satisfaction differ.Some need a noisy company, others a heartfelt conversation; some need a lot of communication and attention, others only a little.
There are common signs of attractiveness for both sexes: signs of maturity and fertility, signs of health and adaptability, body and facial symmetry, and behavioral attractiveness — openness and sociability are perceived as attractive by both men and women.
At the first interaction between a man and a woman, a man needs about 10–15 seconds to understand whether he likes the woman, while a woman needs about 40 seconds.
Men, if a woman tells you she needs more time to figure out whether she likes you, the answer is: she doesn’t.
Now about fertility and health — if a woman has an “hourglass” figure, she will definitely be attractive to men.The waist is important, as it “signals” that the woman can give birth and is not currently pregnant.A thin waist is mostly a prerogative of youth.Breasts — evolutionarily, men are attracted to them: some prefer large, others medium, and here a man’s “type” comes into play.If there are no breasts, then other traits must compensate: hair, symmetry, charisma, and a cheerful disposition — all of these play a greater role at the stage after acquaintance and flirting.
For women, an important criterion is a man’s charisma — how resistant he is to her whims and mood swings.
At a young age, girls may choose “bad boys,” believing that their aggressiveness is a way to feel protected next to them.Later, through experience — whether painful or not — this perception often changes.Women also prefer healthy men as partners, so strong (specifically strong) asymmetry of the face and body can repel them.An over-pumped body is subconsciously perceived evolutionarily as a sign that harmful mutations may be present.Therefore, men who love the gym — try not to overdo it.
Now about the “type” formed in a man — most often it comes from his first sexual experience or, even more importantly, an emotional experience, especially if the sexual experience lacked an emotional peak.The phrase “gentlemen prefer blondes” is more accurate in context: a particular gentleman prefers blondes because that’s the type he developed.This does not mean that the same gentleman won’t choose a brunette and be happy.
Here I am describing unconscious moments that are similar across different people, cultures, and languages.However, culture, language, fashion for certain faces, and movies can also influence our choice of partner.
